⬥⬩⬥ For as long as I can remember, I've heard the adults in my life say, "I can't wait for vacation!" While this seems innocent enough, and we can all agree that we look forward to beach vacations and road trips to fun and relaxing destinations, this phrase was almost always accompanied by something like: "I cannot WAIT to get away from work," or "I need this trip SO badly," or even "Lately I hate everything, I just need to get away!" My parents have been saying this for years, and even I have felt like a vacation from life and school and my friends would be time well spent. But what if I told you that this mindset, where you hate what you do and feel like you have to escape from the everyday, is one you created for yourself a long time ago? What if I said you are actually (yes, really!) completely in control of your life and how you feel about it? Well, you so, so are. You have a